Richie "The Boot" Boiardo from Newark would be my pick. He had legitimate businesses,a beautiful estate,served some jail time,(but not much), was well respected,and active into his 80"s.He was well respected,and could certainly "take care of business" if he had to,but wasn't a brutal guy. He did however flash it up a little by building a really ostentatious home,complete with gaudy statues of himself and his family. He had a sign that read "Godfather's Garden" near the gate,and rumor has it that he had an incinerator on the property to dispose of "evidence" What is really chilling is that,according to rumor, some of the "evidence" was still alive at the time.