If Ralph would've given him a pass, he would've gotten one. However, Tony made it clear to Ralph what needed to be done, and also made sure Ralph knew there would be big issues with Chris, Albert, and Furio if that pass was given. Bottom line.. Ralph knew what needed to be done and did it. He hoped Tony would take the heat for the pass, but he didn't.

"I'll give you undignified. Go fuck yourself. You, Phil... whoever. He's my fuckin' cousin."

"My name is George. I'm unemployed and live with my parents"..