Theres no way the other 4 families are gonna let the gambinos basically patch over 50 made guys in the state of new jersey. I believe they just get there marching orders from the gambinos i think philly gets theres from the genovese since merlino and them were showing up at genovese xmis party ect. Its not like there bossing them around there has to be mutual respect but thats the family they go to in nyc to make complaints or ask for decisions