Well don't know if my opinion mean any matters to you guys but I'll step in and say that in my opinion you weren't homophobic at all jace
I don't know if I should refer to you as a she or he (I have a feeling you are a woman so)
But I can't see why someone should get offended by it,
And I understand what you have said.
That was okay and it's normal that after 30 years in jail you will be shocked from all the changes that went in the world.
and by the way moe you know I love your posts you are one of my favorites members here so it's not that I'm taking any side here in this debate/argument between you guys.
Just wanted to say my opinion.