No reason to apologize if more people raised kids they way you say you do maybe we wouldn't have so many problems unfortunately not everyone's has the means but it shouldn't be an excuse to be a bad parent.

Another solution: Let people sink or swim, of you make a choice you need to deal with the consequences without burdening other people. Definitely not a collectivist solution

Liberty, free association, small government are what I'm big on so when see someone pushing big government I have to question it