Yeah, been there, she has kids now. Just strangers talking here, but if you connect on different things, there are some things that need work on. If you been with a partner for over 3 years, there is something there and communication is strong. My biggest weakness is gambling. Me and her, 5 years. If it is under 3 years then forget about it. You may think it was something there, but that is only your mind playing tricks on you.