Sum up....Aces original point is...he's a good man and tried his best and his kids, but they need to/end up mixing with assholes...that's the way it is (and it's not good).

Faithful's advice is the best in his last post there, I'm sure you know Aces, and sometimes it's good just to hear/read it eh.

Aces, I really do feel for you my friend, I hope you get things sorted