Gets, I agree it's just not natural to bury those younger than us. My Grandma's sister did NOT want me to tell her anything about my Dad's death or the funeral because she could NOT come to grips with the fact that she was still alive at 90 and he was dead. So, I was not permitted to say a word about it when I went to visit her in Jersey. My cousin had to bury her two month old baby. I went to that funeral. And man, was that tough. Awful, awful, awful.

4 years in a row of losing loved ones is too much for one family to take, Gets. And now, losing more loved ones this year is definitely not going to be easy. Take each day as it comes is really all you can do.

I've had to bury three of my ex boyfriends. Those are stories for another day. Very strange and awful.