I wouldn't put Big Paul in that category, but will put Tommy Gambino, son of Carlo Gambino in the list. Hmm, Raymond Patriarca Jr actually earned his strips.
Paul Castellano's men, and a lot of guys in the NY mob in general, sure didn't feel that way. The same goes for Patriarca jr, he wasn't respected at all. Gravano even testified that a faction of the New England mob came to NY with complaints that he wasn't qualified to be boss and was given his position and they wanted to depose him.