Alfano..I apologize for any unsuitable words 4 which were rightfully deleted which i dont remember b-cause i had 2 much wine and irresponsible w/ my words..I aTm a happily married man & do not wish 2 mess that up..It's just my nature from when i was a kid 2 luv women & b flirtatious..a lot in my life now is uncomfortable..my 88 yr old aunt whom ive been a caretaker of & p.o.a. 4 quite a while now has moved in w/ us ,we had no choice , shes basically a vegetable now & sometimes i run the wrong way 4 solitude (then run my Irish mouth)..when I was growing up,UGH meant like u were a fat,ugly slimy kid & i guess i took it personal,I hope u accept my apology as I know u r more than likely a cool chick & wonderful person.....I AM SORRY 4 MY MISDEEDS & wish 2 b cordial w/ u on the board..again,sincerely,sorry..HOOD.