Yeah, that's why I said present at the same time. In most situations, when a prisoners immediate family member, like a father/mother or wife/husband dies, they sometimes get rights to attend the funeral or at least a viewing of the body for about an hour or so. In some situations (it happened to my old man when my mom died) they'll bring in the prisoner during the service and let them say their peace of whatever amongst themselves and the body, before immediately turning them around and going back to the prison. In a more likely scenario, he'll be brought hours before the service is set to begin and gets to have that time to himself. That rarely happens for violent offenders though. I'm not sure if Scarfo Jr, a guy convicted of a white collar scam, is considered a violent offender.