I think you're simplifying the nature of what BDS might be about. Every single time I've watched an interview about that movement, the person speaking was of Jewish descent. Unless they are all "self hating Jews".
I can't speak to them being self hating Jews or not, but I think if your sole argument for BDS not being anti semetic is that they have Jews involved, you ought to go back to the drawing board.
I think history is relevant here. Go look up the term "Kapo".
