One rule for Gigante, another for Castellano.
Gigante kept himself isolated and didn't meet low-level soldiers either.
Nobody shits on him for it.
Its different Moe. Gigante isolated himself and acted like crazy for dont go to jail,Castellano thinked that he is a Ceo not a mob boss,plus he dont made much time in prison. For the dellacroce wake I think that you the boss must show respect to the underboss, big Paul was so scared by the prison that prefered avoid the wake and for this was more hated by the street soldiers.
