Of course Joey was messing around himself! That goes with the territory

The trick is "don't get caught" these wives know deep
down their fellas cheat but want proof

Eg Gotti's wife used to literally attack him & she confronted Shannon Grillo about their affair

Grillo's mum swore to Vicky it was false... So
As one can see, they all know their guys cheat but still go APE when they catch em

As for Joey- he was caught on tape I think it was, telling an associate that he was worried about surveillance FEDS got him on- because he was gambling in a casino with a broad/ but told his wife he was out with the guys

Therefore I guess he can't cry IF she went sleeping around.