I have no problem with gay/lesbian marriage. But I'm a bit confused about the semantics. To me the terminology of married people is - husband is a man, and wife is a female. The use of these words in a marriage should be gender specific. I think the gay/lesbian culture should have their own terminology for their spouses. If lesbians adopt children are they both Mommies? or is one a Daddy. Same with men. I think the kids are going to have a tough road ahead. I can see the Bully-Factor coming in big time. I think there is an identity issue here. I feel for the kids.