I have been told that usage is NOT something that is tolerated this day and age. At all. Ever.

Does it happen? I would assume so, however...even I have been advised not to use (which I haven't in 20 years so it's a moot point) and I am nowhere near them at this point. I think ideology is changing regarding using. Pizzaboy you mentioned the NY and I don't have the history or background with the East Coast.