Joseph died in 2006. James is indeed the third brother.

All Bilotti brothers had 9 children each.

The brothers came up in the crew of Michael D'Alessio.

It's all here.

http://archiver.rootsweb.ancestry.com/th/read/OBITUARIES/2008-10/1223119580

Lots of interesting info to flesh out the Bilotti back story like the following:

"In one incident, Tommy Bilotti knocked out Colombo associate Robert Pate, whose brother was Colombo solider (and future stoolpigeon) John Pate".