Not everyone can live the high life like you, Carmela.
It's not the high life to be able to give extra $20 so the drink server keeps coming around to you all night, etc. That's all it takes and they'll treat you right. But wondering and calculating if you should give a dollar here or dollar there, better off stay home.
Yes, you should tip the drink server separately. When you go to a wedding, YES, you SHOULD give your table server a tip for the table. This should be common etiquette.
