thank you everyone for the kind words.. it really does mean a lot...im hoping me moving into my grandmas for a few months will help her out.. I just don't think her being alone after the loss of her husband could be good for her... I want to keep her company make sure shes never lonely and bring some youthful vibes into a rather morbid atmosphere..

ha yea my grandma loves sopranos... she was a huge fan of tony until he killed chris.. she was so mad after that point she said she didn't care if he lived or died after that ahaha (tony the character that is). shes a pretty hip lady for being in her 80's.. I took her to see The Wolf Of Wallstreet in theatres... haha imagine a 20 something year old kid and his 80 year old grandma going to watch that movie... she loved that also.. she ended up buying it on dvd when it came out!