Long before the internet and before the mafia media darlings (scarfo, gotti), it would be very easy for someone to justify their desire to become part of LCN because, there was very little "available" information to deter someone from joining. In the 50s, 60s and part of the 70s, guys still maintained their code of honor, even if it was a facade. And, the neighborhood kid had nothing else to go by, except his own observations.

But, don't get it twisted, LCN is very much gang mentality. It's completely americanized over here and now rooted 100% in greed. The sad thing is that most of america, banking, real estate, health care, construction, etc., is modeled on extreme capitalism. Which, also is rooted in greed.

And, if you are "chosen" to become a member, in todays age, it's 100% based on your earning potential. And you are joining for the comfort of knowing you can operate your criminal activities with zero impunity from your peers AND if someone tries to take it from you, the family is there for you.

In essence, the family extorts its own members. It's a pyramid scheme where you kick UP to be protected.