Yes. Gotti took a beating. So what. He was an old(ish) man at the time.
No matter how tough you are, there is always someone tougher out there.
I don't get in fights but the one time I took a beating, I was being scratched by a chick and while I was gentlemanly not putting my hands on her, the guy she was with opportunely sucker punched me in the face.
So lesson 1 is don't let women assault you and lesson 2, if someone is squaring up to you and talking crap, don't take too long to analyse the situation like I did. Just incapacitate them straight away.
Can't be diplomatic. There is no honour in fighting anymore. Like there was in the old days (probably).