Think its easy for alot of these reformed mafia guys to lecture a young kid bout " the life ", but at the same time hes already reaped all the benefeits of crime that it makes it hypocritical for him to judge anyone else. He met his wife when he was producing/directing some movie, obv she was attracted to the money/power, doubt they would of gotten together if he was the janitor on the set. Would respect him alot more if just lived his life quietly , instead hes on tv alot and has written several books.