I agree Caramal. Not everything that was going on in T's life was subject to the show just like not every made guy and associate was in the show. An example of this is when Ray Curto tells the feds his wire had Tony talking about the "angelo giacalone murder". Who is Angelo Giacalone? A guy we didnt see dealt with in the show, but at some point he got wacked and Tony knew about it.
It was implied in the writing that other stuff was going on.