From the wikipedia article about Salvatore Ruggiero

"His uncle Aniello Dellacroce had an affair with the wife of the Gambino crime family capo Ernest Grillo Jr.. She bore Dellacroce two illegitimate children, Shannon Connelly and Sean Connelly. Ernest Grillo Jr. is the son of Gambino crime family mob associate and DeMeo crew associate, Danny Grillo."

It's amazing how, depending on the source, the info differs. It reminds me of the "how the FBI bugged Big Paul" debate. According to one book it was a doctored floor lamp,in another it was a bogus TV repair service call. And the sources for both were different FBI agents.Maybe that's what keeps this board fun.