Scarfo JR didn't really hang around with many of those guys before his father got put away aside from summer times at the Jersey Shore. He was really considered an outsider by the younger guys like Merlino and the Changs because he #1 grew up and lives in AC not South Philly and #2 he didn't earn respect from the rest of the guys because he wasn't making the kind of moves those guys were out on the streets, he got what he got from being the son of the boss.