for the record i agree with you guys,meffa and east harlem.and yous are both right about not 'spilling your guts' on the web. but me i was taught not to ask. if i havent already been told something,the odds are, its not neccesary for me to know.just one more person on a long list of people who could 'throw you under the bus' so to speak,if they was so inclined. so,heres some advice to you young kids, theres a reason your old man doesnt tell you everything he knows.and just shootin the bull is fine,but be careful, you never know who ends up hearing what you say.and keep your opinions to yuorself,dont call a guy a pussy who your not one hundred percent sure you can kick his ass.

me,i was always schooled 'ears open mouth shut'.but theres a 'kicker', my pop used to say 'some conversations are best not heard'. i.e.,if it doesnt concern you,walk away. you dont want to be someones 'liability'.