Bogey, Although this may be of little comfort now, who is going to be the better person in the long run? You, who knows how to stand on her own two feet and be an adult, or the pampered princess? I've found that when you're given things, they have very little value. It's the stuff that you work for that is truly worth something to you. And you'll be a far happier and self-assured person in the long run, too. I would HATE to have to cry to daddy every time I needed something.

And, btw, kick the ex's door in and get your stuff the hell out of there, ok?