I just rewatched the video with Kevin Costner's eulogy. (I was really impressed).

I noticed something funny.... at 2:15 of the tape, Costner had just mentioned that he, too, had been raised in a Baptist Church, and as the audience reacted, there is an older man seated behind Kostner (to the left of the screen) who kind of leans into a young gal seated next to him. She was having none of that, and the look on her face as she looked at the older guy is absolutely priceless.