I understood this woman was meeting up with her sisters to decide what to do with the ashes. Thankfully I've never hand anywhere near that kind of experience BUT it seems it weird driving around with you mom's ashes, and putting them in the trunk. I don't know. Just weird.
TIS
"Mankind must put an end to war before war puts an end to mankind. War will exist until that distant day when the conscientious objector enjoys the same reputation and prestige that the warrior does today." JFK