Good point Don Cardi. These guys should have anticipated doing some time in prison and if they were smart would've picked someone loyal and tough enough to stick it out so they didn't lose their family on top of everything else. Ginny Sack and Patty Leotardo both proved their loyalty, although Patty was a fanatical bitch on wheels and stirred up shit that was none of her business. Ginny seemed to retain some innocence and sweetness unlike Carm who became as cold, hard and cynical as her husband. I think a guy surrounded by violence and backstabbing would want to come home to a wife who was soft and nurturing and naive.