Well aside from the fact that I hardly go to Facebook (I find it so confusing) . Both my daughers use it and use their real names. They have all their friends they communicate with and one just located a long lost high school friend. It sounds kind of nice, but I hesitate using my real name.
If I were to put in both my maiden/married name maybe I'd hear from old friends, but I too am afraid to do that. Yet, i've seen my neices/nephews from Michigan are using their real names and other people I know. I'm kind of concerned though about doing that.
TIS
"Mankind must put an end to war before war puts an end to mankind. War will exist until that distant day when the conscientious objector enjoys the same reputation and prestige that the warrior does today." JFK
. Both my daughers use it and use their real names. They have all their friends they communicate with and one just located a long lost high school friend. It sounds kind of nice, but I hesitate using my real name. 
