Tony resented Janice's want to change. Change from her Soprano hot-headedness. He hates Janice's bad temper, as it got him in the news, but at the same time, he couldn't cope with her being a calm person of rationale and logic. I think Janice is much more (naturally irrational than Tony, and that means Tony can at least live in comfort knowing that he is (by means of dignity) superior to Janice.

In making her crack in this episode's finale, he brought her crashing back down to Earth. He couldn't take Janice being happy in herself by falseness. He wanted to bring her back to Sopranoness.

And I agree with Double J that Tony is a "sick fuck," but one which we cannot help but pity in his inevitable downward spiral into self-induced depression and a paranoid, Freudian mess.

Mick

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