If I was to choose soundtracks, I'd choose these:
-Breaking of the Fellowship, Samwise the Brave, The Black Gate Opens or Forth Eorlingas by Howard Shore
-The Birth of the Twins, Anakin vs Obi Wan or Star Wars End Title
-The Godfather Part II End Title or The Immigrant

As for the others:
-The Scientist by Coldplay
-Beautiful Day by U2
-Just Like Heaven by The Cure or Boys Don't Cry
If I wanted a really deppressing funeral, I'd go for "This year's love" by David Grey.

JABS

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