I am currently reading "Shine" by Star Jones (Reynolds). I'm a big fan of hers (sorry I know most people here probably don't like her). I didn't realize how appropo (sp?) this book would be for me. She was 41 when she decided to make a change and when she realized how unhappy (although very successful) she was. She decided to lose weight and find the man of her dreams. The subtitle is Shine: A Physical, Emotional, and Spiritual Journey to Finding Love And what do you know? She did, right in the middle of all that changing. It's a great book and I recommend it for all middle-aged women looking to improve ~ whether it be to marry, remarry or just feel better about yourself and life. Here's a link at amazon.