Wasnt' the entire reason guys got involved in the life anyway to allow their family members become successful in legit endeavors? Such as say your son becomes a Doctor or Lawyer.

You can go around and brag about them to others and say "Look at my son, look how great he is."

Lets use John Gotti as an example. Now his son of course got involved in the life, but when it came to his grandkids he wanted them to be legit. Wanted one of them to be a lawyer.