• Carmela
Sure thing when Vito and Carmela married, Vito was a law abiding shop employee in a Grocery store and only became Mafia after

However Carmela seemingly had no qualms going along with her -
1. murderous husband Vito and sons Sonny and Michael
2. daughter Connie's spousal abuse

and teasing her son Fredo who had low self-esteem issues Havana when the brothers were having drinks -
Quote
Fredo to Michael: You know Mama used to tease me
She'd say, uh - "You don't belong to me; you were left on the doorstep by gypsies" Sometimes I think it's true

Also the families who marry their daughters off to Mob men - status quo? deemed a good catch? Rich widow?!

  • Apollonia
The Vitellis must have known / found out? that Michael was hiding in Sicily because of Michael's murder charges of the New York City Police Captain and with him a man named Virgil Sollozzo