It's not. You said Joe Massino was looking after his family and that the wiseguys who go to prison are hurting their family...what hurts more, having a Dad in prison but still have money and respect or having a dad become a RAT and make you a target for murder by dozens of people and have to enter WPP just to stay alive.
No ones murdering his family in this day and age..they’re still in Howard Beach....money and “respect “ from criminals isn’t a replacement for a father and husband and the outcome was his family is safe, got to keep theyre money and his kids and grandkids get to have a father and grandfather and his wife still has a husband. Being in prison is the same thing as being dead and your family does all the time with you ... you think being a good father involves going to prison for life and abandoning your kids so you can be a 10 minute conversation in a bar where your called a stand up guy and the next comment is let’s have another fucking drink and how bout those Yankees ....let’s stick to the main topic though...