So my opinion on this from my own personal knowledge and of other things that I’ve read or seen is. I don’t think any mob guy can be a “ good father†I think mob guys can have “good intentions†when it comes to theyre kids but at the end of the day when your living an evil lifestyle it’s hard to be a “good†father. When you go to prison your kids and families are the ones who pay the price for your choices in life even though as your children they themselves had no choice in the matter. When your murdered in the street or disappear off the face of the earth,kids don’t easily get over that. It’s something that sticks with them for the rest of theyre lives,and children are extremely impressionable so when they see you living your life a certain way they want to follow. For 99% of mobsters they’re sleeping late and out all of hours of the night in nightclubs and social clubs gambling and partying and fucking other women, not the mother of theyre children .Kids see that and know that and feel that . These guys aren’t they’re for the kids or helping them with homework ...Jr Gotti really said it best “my father wasn’t theyre for me, I know he loved me but he dropped me at the social club for hours and he was out partying and gambling he wasn’t helping me with homework or throwing the ball...his family came second to the streets†and the streets are the gutter they’re full of drugs and death and pain and scum and your choosing that over your own children..Not to mention taking prison time over talking and being with your family ..people shit on Massino and he flipped to save his skin but at the same time make sure his wife and children kept theyre homes,so they weren’t thrown in the streets.....
“JAG: We used to go with our fathers, our fathers never really spent time with us. When they did, they drove us by the club, dropped us off at the club, and that was it. We were 10.11.12 years old in a club full of men.â€
-Junior A Gotti
Last edited by Louiebynochi; 03/04/21 08:32 PM.
