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Re: Biggest Pet Peeve?
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11/22/04 02:54 AM
11/22/04 02:54 AM
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Try that in West Hollywood. You'll get a "Yeah, actually. And I like those jeans on you. Do you, uh, wanna go get a Starbucks or something?" I totally agree with the other question stuff you said, though. If I got a SERIOUS response like that it would result in my right hand going forward against his face and then placing both hands behind my back lol One other thing that annoys me: guys who talk about being with every woman on the planet, yet you've never seen them even talk to a girl in front of you. I don't know if I need to say this one but people who smoke and then blow the smoke in your face. That will result in the same response as above This has only happened with one person but it pissed me off enough to list it: This guy wears some $10 button down "dress shirt" with jeans- I on the other hand had on a Van Heusen Dress Shirt with dress slacks and dress shoes (yes its what I always wear lol, I don't own a pair of jeans) and he tells me "me and you dress the same way" He is the teaching assistant for a class, so I haven't said anything but once I get a grade for the course- he is in for it!
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Re: Biggest Pet Peeve?
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11/22/04 03:44 AM
11/22/04 03:44 AM
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Originally posted by Irishman12: [quote]Originally posted by ginaitaliangirl: [b]- People who don't look at you when you talk. Oh my God, I can't tell you how much that annoys and upsets me. What really angers me is that it's sometimes people who I am always willing to listen to long stories from, yet they can't lend an ear and an EYE to me. It just makes me feel like what I'm saying isn't even worthy of being said. I'm kind of that way where I cannot look into a person's eyes for very long. First I feel that I'm starring & that is rude. But I can't just continue to stare into their eyes as they're talking. I can still listen to them without looking directly at them, but I just CAN'T stare at someone in their eyes for very long. It gets on my nerves. [/b][/quote]When I made this particular "peeve post," I actually considered mentioning the same thing about myself, but I figured it would contradict the whole point of my rant! I have the same trouble with eye contact myself where I can't really look a person straight in the eye, especially for very long. I think my peeve is mainly with people who actually look away from me when I'm talking. My brother and my guy cousin are the main ones who do it, and I'll be telling a story or something, and they'll literally turn around and look a completely different direction. I wouldn't have a problem if they just sort of looked around me, because that's what I often do to people...leading back to the eye contact anxiety, I suppose. It's weird, because it seems I've never been that way until lately. I'm not as shy as I used to be, so I guess I've wanted to develop better social skills by directing my full attention to people when they talk, (since that's what I would appreciate) but I find myself completely tuning out what they're saying because I'm so worried about how long I should keep eye contact, what they're thinking about it, where I could possibly look instead, etc. I'm just happy to hear that some of y'all feel the same way about that. So, what is the BB's hourly charge for therapy, again? ~Gina (P.S. The wet feet thing sounds interesting. I think the only way that would bother me is if dirt/sand also got on my feet and stuck to the water...ew.)
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Re: Biggest Pet Peeve?
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11/22/04 09:54 AM
11/22/04 09:54 AM
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The Italian Stallionette
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Another one pertaining to "driving". Nowhere is the law "pedestrians have the right of way" more taken advantage of as in California. I'm talking about turning on a green arrow, for instance. You know the ones that allow for 2 cars to turn then the light changes. :rolleyes: Pedestrians start crossing and take their sweet old time, and you must wait out another light. It doesn't matter, they can cross whenever they want, and of course you can't run them down, but it seems no traffic signals apply to them. That also goes for bicycle riders, who for some reason unbelieveable to me, can ride in the traffic lanes. I have to wait, at times, to make that left turn, because there is a guy on a bicycle in front of me, pedaling away making a left turn right with the traffic. TIS
"Mankind must put an end to war before war puts an end to mankind. War will exist until that distant day when the conscientious objector enjoys the same reputation and prestige that the warrior does today." JFK
"War is over, if you want it" - John Lennon
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Re: Biggest Pet Peeve?
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11/22/04 07:43 PM
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Letizia B.
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TIS, I hate that!!! Sometimes I just wanna make it like a video game and see how many I can knock down... 5 points if they're walking, 10 points if they're on a bike, etc. I wish!! In other countries, YOU have to watch for cars if you wanna cross the street. No driver is gonna be careful and slow down for you. The most they'll do is honk as they speed by. That's a good system, I think we should adopt it. Not that I hate pedestrians. I walk sometimes too, if I'm going somewhere close, or if you're shopping on a street as opposed to a mall, there's a lot of street-crossing to do, etc. But they just have to be a little more considerate of drivers, is all.
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Re: Biggest Pet Peeve?
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11/22/04 09:02 PM
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Tom
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If I could drive i'd be in jail. 1)i hate people who read the books to movies 2)i hate online smartasses 3)i hate stupid people
"Well at first like everybody else I, I was a soldier."
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Re: Biggest Pet Peeve?
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11/24/04 11:02 AM
11/24/04 11:02 AM
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Liz_85
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I have a thing about people jiggling their legs when I'm sitting beside them. Drives me crazy.
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Re: Biggest Pet Peeve?
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11/24/04 02:38 PM
11/24/04 02:38 PM
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ginaitaliangirl
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Originally posted by Partagas: This eye thing is interesting. I interact with many others while sitting or standing "face-to-face" with them. (interviews, solicitations for contributions, business deals, etc....) It amazes me how different everyone is with the "looking into the eyes" bit. Some will never look at you, some act like there having a stare down contest, some look over your head, etc.... I conciously practice looking at them in the eye but not staring at them (kind of hard to explain, I know) I think I have the ability to be looking into their eyes while actually looking through them.
I also have a lot of public speaking experience and can usually look right through my audience -- I have been told that it appears as if I am looking at each individual. this has taken many years of practice and I am always trying to improve on this style. Initially, I would always look over their heads when speaking. I became aware of this and them began to conciously look at the individuals in the audience until eventually it became a habbit.
All in all though, I am fascinated with the one on one and speaker to audience dynamics.
OK must admit, there are some with gorgeous eyes that mnay have me a little more captivated. The eyes will make me melt and sometimes I have to turn away (as subtlely as possible) Part, I think that's great that you're so talented in this eye business! Seriously, I wish I could figure out whatever trick it is that you use. Maybe you can give us lessons? The funny thing is, I actually love "eye stuff." While I may not be good with eye contact during conversations, I love how you can catch a quick glance from a stranger or someone...I like that kind of eye contact because it makes you sort of wonder what the other person is thinking...but not in a weird way, just sort of sweet and romantic. Ah, too many chick flicks for me. As some of y'all have said, there are some people who have just beautiful eyes. It's interesting to see people with the unique colors, like hazel or green, but I also love brown eyes. Dark is really mysterious, and light brown just seems sweet to me. (Speaking of guys' eyes...lol But I get jealous of girls who have pretty eyes because I'd like to have their color.) I just got back from an eye appointment, so this is about all I can think about. My eyes are dilated, still, and they gave me about five sets of drops...to dilate, to un-dilate, check the pressure (?), and God knows what else. :rolleyes: ~Gina
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Re: Biggest Pet Peeve?
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12/07/04 11:52 AM
12/07/04 11:52 AM
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Neri
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A few things:
When you ask someone(friend, date, anyone) where they want to eat or what movie they want to go see and they reply, I dont know, what about you? I think everyone has experienced this.
When you have to keep telling people the same thing over and over again because they seemingly forgot. Either that or they're stupid.
When people make terrible calls in poker and end up lucking out on the river by hitting their inside straight or flush draw.
When people say that if they ever took steroids, they did so unknowingly.
"As far back as I can remember, I've always wanted to be a gangster." - Henry Hill
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Re: Biggest Pet Peeve?
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02/07/05 09:56 PM
02/07/05 09:56 PM
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XDCX
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I can prolly think of a few, seeing as I work in the restaurant business...: Every now and then, my boss will pull me from the cooking area, and ask me to greet and seat people, as well as help out the bus boys and waiters and waitresses. This leads to some interesting confrontations: -When two people decide to stop right in front of where I'm walking, and decide to have a f*cking conversation. This happens ALL the time. -When I cook someone a steak, and they eat all but a bite of it, then send my boss back to tell me it was awful. Gee buddy, you seemed to enjoy it enough to eat the whole f*cking steak. -When my boss tells me to put a bag of wings down, and then 30 more people tell me to put a bag of wings down, only to find out that they were talking about that same bag my boss told me. Everyday Pet Peeves- When my little sister decides to rearrange all my movies. I have obsessive compulsive qualities, and my movies fall under that category. I got em in a specific order. I flip out when I go to grab one, and can't find it. - When I'm driving down a two way street, and the person I'm behind knows the person driving the car going the opposite way, and they stop in the middle of the f*cking road and start talking. I beep the horn, and they look at me like I'M the asshole. - When I tell my girlfriend something that someone said, and she asks in all seriousness "Why would they say that?" HOW SHOULD I KNOW?!?! There's more, but 24 is about to come on. That's another of my obsessions.
"Growing up my dad was like 'You have a great last name, Galifianakis. Galifianakis...begins with a gal...and ends with a kiss...' I'm like that's great dad, can we get it changed to 'Galifianafuck' please?" -- Zach Galifianakis
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Re: Biggest Pet Peeve?
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02/07/05 11:19 PM
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XDCX
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It's gotten to the point now where I'll stop just short of giving someone a polygraph test before I let them borrow one of my DVDs. The past few times I've lended one to somebody, it's either come back scratched up to the point where it won't play, or I just won't get it back period. Same with my PS2 games, CDs, etc. People, compact discs have been around since the mid-80s, if you don't know how to take care of them, you don't need to be using 'em. (That's to no one specific, BTW.)
"Growing up my dad was like 'You have a great last name, Galifianakis. Galifianakis...begins with a gal...and ends with a kiss...' I'm like that's great dad, can we get it changed to 'Galifianafuck' please?" -- Zach Galifianakis
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