hey guys i need your opinoins on a subject. I am writing a paper on how the human values are changing with time. Here is a situation i would like your opinoin on. Please state your age with your answer. Thank You.

Here is the ? . You are trying to decide between two girls: which 1 you would want to marry.

The first girl is a absolute knockout. Looks wise a 11 on a scale of 1 - 10 face and body . She is a little wild with a past. And her homemaker skills are average at best but she seems willing to change.

Girl 2 is more of a carmela soprano. Looks prob a 7 out of 10 with excellent homemakers skills. She is a family oriented . Her built is a little thick which makes you worry she may get bigger with age.

Which do you choose and y?? Thanks

I would choose the one, whom I loved. The homemaking skills are of marginal consequence. I wouldn't worry about how her looks would be over the years. Also, I don't know what Carmela Soprano looks like.

I agree with Kly. In the absence of love, you're going for what -carnal effects?

63.

"Be the first of your friends to like this." LMFAO!

I'd hate to over-think this and all, but how can somebody be an 11 on a scale of 1 to 10? I'm 23.

Sorry, but thebarber has a point. If you didn't choose the knockout, you'd be crazy!! Did you not read that?? The other one was thick around the middle!!!!

When you're going to spend the rest of your life with someone, the thickness of their middle is all that counts! Their loyalty, integrity, intelligence, sense of humor, all shit! What matters is their ability to dust and cook (the homemaking skills referred to in the original post) and their looks. THAT'S the criteria you gotta go with.

Personally, when I chose my husband, I made sure he had an ass you could bounce a quarter off of and other "assets", if you know what I mean, because after raising a family together, spending 50 or so years with one another, a tight ass is what counts.

True, Babe. Also, you'll want to get a good look at her mother, to get an idea about how she'll age .

I should note I'm 23 years old, not 23 on a scale of 1 to 10.

Hold on,
I read that first part and was sure that it was Mr.
Babe posting,
Then it said husband and I said shit you had me fooled.
SB, Spoken like a true guy!
I will send out your man card this afternoon!

By the way SB I am sure that everyone is wondering how that quarter bouncing ass is after all those years?

read mt next post.....

Haven't tried the quarter lately, but he still looks good in a pair of jeans.

This is what Carmela Soprano (played by Edie Falco) looked like (think TIS's avatar):



As far as my personal answer, you've pretty much said it all.

Signor V.

I'm sorry but thick around the middle isn't anything to worry about. I will take the women who I feel is the best match for me. Like two spoons that fit together.

If I have learned anything in this world, it is that looks aren't a top line item. Yes, maybe when you a young and dumb. You need the looks to make you feel like you have something special. Look what I can get , isn't she hot......and most time Dump after a while!

I have had them and I have tired of them really fast. Give me that lady who knows how to communicate, One who can talk to you for hours about almost anything, is nice to all others and not all about herself. The one is isn't afraid to get her hands dirty or can be in the background without worry that she isn't out front. I'll take the one that is happy with herself and shares what she has with me.

I'll take the gal that can make me feel special with just a few simple words in the morning, that special look at night or a touch of her hand. One who would rather hold your hand or hold your arm when you are next to each other, rather then showing the other women what she has or what she has been wearing.
That is right I will take the thick in the middle one, the one with common sense, a gal who doesn't mind the housework because she knows that it builds a happy home for both of you. Hell, if it is one thing I do know that no one grows old without flaws.
At the funeral home you can tell the lucky ones, You will see that the they were happy for years. And they seem to be those matched spoons. Together for so long, and have gone together for so many years that they become almost one person. And when one goes it is almost like losing a part of themselves. Yes, that the one for me. I'll take a spoon, even if she is thick around the middle.

Did I just read a serious response in this thread?

Ok so far the only vote for # 1 is sicilian B every1 else is for # 2 ??.I am conducting this survey in a few diffrent paces and so far its about 3 to 1 in favor of # 2. I am working on a paper about human values for my mastersand have received about 195 replies so far. I will have final stats in about a wk. Thanks

Ha ha ha ha!!!! Great post SB!


You should go with the one you love. Just make sure that you are not thinking with the "other" brain when you make the decision.

TIS

Really?

Your masters? Really? They must have relaxed the standards in many universities.

SB i dont know y u say that. My paper is not about this subject directly this is just a sample survey ? . The paper is about how younger people today are more interested in material objects and money than they are friends and family. Much diffrent than my parents generation.

I wasn't referring to the subject matter. I was referring to the fact that someone on the post-graduate level hasn't mastered the art of spelling or grammar. Perhaps English is not your native tongue??

Uh, SB's reply I think was a bit sarcastic. Read it again.

Well SB, there's always word check.