You are right it is..
Could you imagine that was you and your family?

They sent someone knocking on your walls, basically you know these guys killed your husband, father etc..
And they threatened to kill the son, Deross said to the wife "You know your lucky, in the old days they killed the son along with the father"

You can't blame the mother and sisters for flipping, how else could they fight back?

The son Jr. he is a different story

When his dad was alive and on the streets of Bensonhurst he was a big tuff guy, the first one to throw a punch, it was real easy when your dad was a powerful CAPO that was feared by many, and he had a crew of killers behind him.

His dad gets clipped and he runs to WITSEC, he wasn't so tuff anymore...
He lost the ARMY he had behind him, he had to stand for himself.