Rays wife has an Instagram account and it's public meaning u don't have to request her to see her pictures. Ray seems like a family man. It looks like he loves his family to death. His wife seems to love being affiliated with the life. She has pictures of vacations with the merlinos and pictures from when Joey got out from his violation... They had a party and there's a Picture of Ray, Joey m, and Joey perna. In one photo she has ray and his sons playing some video game and she thanked Joey perna... But it's his sons account. The son said my dad said you're welcome. Also Joey m goes back and forth with Joey p's son busting chops. I ain't no creep. It gives u suggestions of people to become friends with and rays wife and Eddie came up.