I could only imagine the stress nicodemo feels. Imagine being a good earner and fully supporting your wife and kids living a good life then you go away for 20 years... Not knowing if you're wife will be able to keep the household afloat with all the bills and children to raise.. But I guess these wives know who they're marrying beforehand.. Does anyone honestly think that that it's possible for made guys wives to have no idea what they're husbands really do day in and day out?? Even if it was never spoken about when you're married or in a serious relationship with a girl they know a lot about what you do. Even if you try to hide it.. Plus the neighborhood gossip and everything else..