I guess today we live in much different times and they were American born Italians not off the boat Sicilians but I feel like in no scenario would Ralph Cifaretto, a wild-card soldier with a worse than usual rep would be allowed to date Rosalie Aprile within a year after Jackie dying and Ralph coming back from running point for the DiMeo Family in Miami fairly openly displaying a coke habit upon return. I know there are real life situations Like Linda Scarfo having an "arrangment" and Debbie Merlino allegedy sleeping around while Joey was inside but a boss direct with New York dying of cancer I feel deems Rosalie off limits but I understand the point was to progress Ralph's and Jackie Junior's storyline's by connecting them to Tony and Meadow through Rosalie. It works for the sake of TV, but in real life I think it would be a definite off limit situation.