Not all parents hit their children and i think Tony did once hit AJ, i think when he was suspended from school and he back chatted Tony..

Off the top off my heard i can't think of anything unrealistic as i think it's the nearest show to real life about OC that there is..

The Mafia Is Not Primarily An Organisation Of Murderers.
First And Foremost,The Mafia Is Made Up Of Thieves.
It Is Driven By Greed And Controlled By Fear.

Between The Law And The Mafia, The Law Is Not The Most To Be Feared

"What if the Mafia were not an organization but a widespread Sicilian attitude of hostility towards the law?"

"Make Love Not War" John Lennon