Absolutely GR, it's Chin vs Gotti;
My family had gang leaders, they absolutely banned all the young ins from joining, and yet half the women in the family still like expect it of you..
It's not always direct, sometimes subtle, like in goodfellas where the wife says you are surrounded by it all the time it becomes normal, so Growing up in it is way more intense, all I was saying, but you are right on the money GR! The best is that wiretap convo with I think 2 luchesse guys? Talking about no I don't want my son in the life, and the the question like, what are we really saying about this thing?
That this life is no good....