Another example, that DEmeo book, Sins of my father;
His whole family expected him to take care of his family like his father did, he wasn't a gangster, but he loved his father and when his father asked him, he helped him. He probably had no idea why he's at school with a gun protecting his sister, like you know what I mean?How many times you heard this, if he was born in the suburbs instead of wherever, he woulda ran a Fortune 500, or Been a CEO, or whatever...
Look at how Scarfo felt about his hardworking dad, and how he treated the one straight son, i know from experience so I could go on and on...
I'm just saying don't judge that guy too harshly...