unlike all of you, i will use my real name. thanks to big momma for standing up, leave it to the women. i figure all of you are males age 28 to 60 years stalking my husband and my friends..it behooves me that you all take the names and pictures of these guys, especially the chang guy...give me a pic of your dead family member and their name, let me splash it all over a jerkoff website in the name of respect and tell me how you feel..most of or all of the stuff you people think you know is false, even if it comes from a friend who thinks he knows..as for the cake, yes, i was serious, it was gorgeous and delicious, it was also a mortgage payment to all of you, i work 3 jobs and can afford to feed my husband and 220 of our closest friends a cake like that..its obvious to me that you must be bored in your own lives to pay so much attention to us and everyone you write about, we don't even know about these websites until someone comes across our pictures who actually takes them...don't you feel embarrassed to use handsome stevie's name and picture now? my brother in law's face and name? or are you gonna come back at me cause you are all gangsters on a keyboard? at least i am true to myself and everyone in the world, i am not afraid of who i am or what i have to say..thing is i know who i am, we know who we are, don't hate us cause you ain't us, the girls are worse then the guys, I'm not gonna play the keyboard fight game just had to say my peace..you all should enjoy your own life as much as we enjoy ours, the pictures tell the story