thank you.. in my opinion, the best way to a friendship, marriage, worthy adversary starts and stops with respect,, i was brought up with that mentality, does not mean you have to agree with someone all the time. respect their position. if they respect yours. i taught my sons this growing up, if someone does not have the knowledge of a subject it does not make them stupid , but at times people say their stupid.. some people have a great area of knowledge and frown on others that do not, now that is an ignorant person.. we are here on keyboards, if i see someone is talking down, i don't respond, next subject. if you need any info i can help just ask.. hey massapequa, jr gotti lived there for awhile.. whats the name of that diner on merrick going east