I dont think u can.Yes you dont have to to become made but to reach that high you have to be an earner and a feared guy.People talk about castelano but this guy came up during the prohibition and just say he didnt (which i personally think he has) the guy was a rare case where he was related to the boss.
I don't kno if I did the quote correctly but the above Is kind of what I am saying. I feel like yes you can/could be made without murder but especially until fairly recently I think it would be really hard to be boss. With a family of over 100 stone gangsters and probly 50 killers I just can't see just anyone commanding these individual's respect. Now I do understand in this day and age the situation is different.
